What Two Years as PTO President Taught Me About Leadership

When my children were in elementary school, I remember looking at the PTO President and thinking, One day, I’d love to do that. Not because I wanted the title or to be in charge, but because I’ve always loved serving people.

Two years ago, that dream became a reality when I was elected President of the Sartartia Middle School PTO. Looking back now, I can honestly say it has been one of the most rewarding chapters of my life.

Of course, I’m proud of what our board accomplished together. We planned events, supported our teachers and staff, raised funds for our school, and created opportunities for students to thrive. But when people ask me what I’ll remember most, it won’t be the events or the numbers. It will be the people – the friendships that grew from early morning and late night planning sessions, and the conversations while setting up for school events. It’s even the volunteers who gave their time simply because they cared despite their busy schedules and the teachers and staff who poured their hearts into our students every single day. 

Those relationships are what I’ll treasure most.

Leadership Is Service

One lesson that became even clearer during these two years is that leadership has very little to do with titles. I’ve never viewed myself as “the boss.” In fact, I don’t believe great leaders act like they’re above anyone else. If chairs, tables and decorations needed to be set up, I’d help. If someone was overwhelmed, I’d jump in. No task is too small when you’re serving a community you care about.

To me, leadership means working alongside people—not standing above them.

The best leaders don’t ask others to do things they wouldn’t be willing to do themselves.

We All Matter

One thing I love about volunteer organizations is that every person contributes something valuable. Some people organize behind the scenes, some decorate, coordinate events, make phone calls, donate supplies, and some just volunteer for just one hour.

Every role matters.

Titles may describe responsibilities, but they don’t determine someone’s worth. We’re all working toward the same goal, and every contribution deserves appreciation.

A Heart for Community

People often ask why I volunteer so much and the answer is simple – serving my community has never felt like an obligation—it feels natural.

Whether it’s supporting our schools, volunteering with local nonprofits, mentoring students, writing educational resources, or encouraging kindness through my children’s books, I’ve always believed that small acts of service can make a lasting impact.

Leadership, to me, isn’t something you turn on and off. It’s simply who you are.

Looking Ahead

Although my time as PTO President has come to an end, my passion for serving others certainly hasn’t. I’ll always be grateful to the incredible PTO board members, teachers, administrators, parents, volunteers, and families who made these past two years so meaningful.

Thank you for trusting me, your friendship, and allowing me to serve. 💜

As one chapter closes, another begins—and I look forward to finding new ways to support my community, encourage others, and continue leading with kindness, humility, and a servant’s heart. In the end, leadership isn’t about being in charge, it’s about making a difference while helping others shine.

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